I could still probably salvage this rose shrub but I won't do it anymore. Nine years of waiting for it to bloom favorable number of roses is long enough. Investing on good soil & fertilizer didn't seem to nurture the plant; neither watering it regularly. Pruning and transferring it to another place was a disaster and yet it still alive but not just producing more flowers as much as I've wished it should. Uprooting it will completely eradicate its unproductive exixtence.
At one time, I even thought I don't have "a green thumb." But that isn't true at all. "No such thing."
Thus, it made me compare this rose shrub to having loved the wrong person. No matter how you've been continually shown & acted to taking good care of the one you love and still didn't work--obviously, you've got the undeserved one. And the best thing you can do is to uproot the constraint that's making your life unproductive and never think that there's something wrong with you. Uproot not just pluck what needs to be gone.
Plant a new one. Take your time to visit garden shops. Google more information which plant can weather the seasons of life; one that is low maintenance and gives unconditional abundance of scintillating flowers, greener luscious stems and beautiful all around.
The same thing on loving someone...There should be an adherence to a process or mighty steps. Make sure you are armored with good instincts. You go with what is built inside his character. And make sure his strength is derived from our Main Source: the Creator of all good gifts. Then, he's worth of you because you are a child of God. Let the Seed & the Wisdom of His Word be your greatest barometer in choosing a life mate. With that assurance, "What God has joined together let no man put asunder." (Matthew 19:6)
"Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." (Proverb 4:23)
This is more like it...It will come forth for me.
You take care always.
A Very Blessed Sunday To All